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Below you will find links to other efforts to reform this unjust system of illegal extortion. You will see many different views and view points and on some pages you may find opposing view points on the same page. If we don't look at both sides of the argument, we do not know what we are facing. To make a sound argument against the innacurate reasoning you must first know the inaccurate position and the flawed reasoning. We need to instill individual responsibility amongst our citizens and stop penalizing the innocent and aleviating the responsibility of the guilty.

A few questions and thoughts

Where has personal responsibility gone in our society? Read these articles and think about this: When an innocent person is convicted of a crime and later found innocent, should he be left imprisoned so that someone pays for the crime, even when it can be proved that he did not commit the crime?
This is not just undue taxation without representation, it is neglegence by a system that does not want to bear the burden of supporting these children that might likely live in poverty if the system didn't penalize someone and force that person to take on the financial responsibility. How can it be in the best interests of any child to strip the rights of any adult? What kind of world are we preparing that child for? What is the overriding theme that is to be taught to the generations of children that are being born, "find a victim and make him pay and abandon personal responsibility and accountability"? This is a penalty or unfair taxation and is unjustly levied under the guise that it is best for the child, when the animosity that it stirs cannot be thought of as beneficial for any child. Where is the justification? What argument can be prepared to justify this without some cowardly statement like "this is in the best interest of the child"? Just like the irresponsible mother, in this situation it is the government who is irresponsibly placing an undue burden upon a man who has played no part in the creation of the child. Can the state illegally force you to take responsibility for something you have been duped into believing was your responsibility?

Societal Changes....by Gary A. Jackson
An article written by Gary A. Jackson Our very own Gary A. Jackson is a contributing author to the website. Here he gives his views on the changing society that we live in and how women have learned to wield the power that comes from working. He goes on to note the effects that can be seen by this new found power.
1.6M Men Pay Child Support For Kids That Aren't Theirs (DNA)
http://www.rense.com/
general51/chsup.htm
This doctor describes the plight of men who are forced to pay for children that they are not biologically responsible for creating.
(Colorado)
Duped 'dads' seek relief
http://www.detnews.com/apps/
pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20060320/
POLITICS/603200361
These men are fighting back to overturn court orders forcing them to pay for children that are not theirs. In one instance, a man is paying child support to the biological father of the child, who has custody of the child after splitting with the mother of the child. (Michigan)
Not the dad, pay anyway
http://72.14.203.104/search?q= cache:9jkPdDZWo_cJ:
www.freep.com/ news/mich/dad16_20020916.htm
+men+who+don%27t+pay+child
+support&hl=en&gl
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This man notes that while he tried to be a stand up guy and take the word of his female companion, instead of being a "jerk" who questioned her virtue, he is now forced to pay support for her child after learning that the child is not his.
If you read this, please note that while the page is an old cached page, Amy Zaagman in this article seems to think that spending time with the child is far less important than being financially responsible for that child. (Hmmmm...is it just me or is something wrong with her statement????)
Why Marriage has become a raw deal for men
http://dontmarry.com/ This site points out the financial pitfalls of marriage. It highlights facts about women that men should be careful of when considering marriage because a woman can shift her debt to the man during marriage. The author points out societal double standards that you may find interesting.
 
 
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